How To Meet Dtf Girls On Tinder & Hook Up The Same Night

How To Meet Dtf Girls On Tinder & Hook Up The Same Night

18.Jul.2021

what's up guys this movie I'm going to
show you how to have a shame that way
from tinder and other dating apps now
this may sound totally crazy there's
girls who use online dating because
they're horny and they want to have sex
that same night so this video I'm going
to show you what signs to look for and
how you can go about making that happen
so that you get laid she gets laid and
everyone wins alright so when it comes
to having a same that lay there's
essentially five things you need to keep
in mind first is making sure the girl is
actually interested in having sex that
night so this is one that fortunately a
lot of guys get wrong
they either failed to pick up on the
signs of the girls giving them and they
continue to banter and banter to no end
or maybe they set up a date a week from
now and then the girl goes out and finds
another guy that night and then she's no
longer interested or on the other end of
the spectrum maybe the girl is
interested in hanging out with them
which is just not free that night but
they push and push for the same night
lay they misinterpret her interest for
interest in a same night lay and they
blow down because it should become too
pushy for that same night lay so I think
this gonna become a lot more clear as we
walk through you know all the examples
I'm gonna show you guys you'll be able
to kind of see okay what are the
telltale signs that girls interested and
how to properly capitalize on it this
leads me to point number two you have to
actually make this [ __ ] happen even if
she is giving you massive thoughts and
she's horny that night you still have to
lead and you still have to make this
happen so you're gonna throw out some
fewer texts which I'm gonna show you
guys if it seems like she's interested
again in a scene that lay then you have
to set the whole thing up and make it go
down third you have to remove pretty
much all obstacles at least all the
obstacles and you can so let's look at
it this way right this is a girl's
desire to get laid that night and then
some obstacles might pop up if the
obstacles become greater than her desire
that sex does not happened well you can
do is make this whole thing as simple
and straightforward as possible and
remove all these obstacles especially
logistical wants to you know make sure
that your desire is greater than the
obstacles point number four don't get
needy this is y'all commonly happens to
the girl it looks like it's going good
it looks like sex is about to happen
that day and then the girl maybe you
know has a concern or maybe you know she
just
takes a shower she forgets to check her
phone and the guy gets super anxious and
starts blowing up her phone and then the
girls like oh this guy's super needy and
then she changes her mind and you know
the whole thing doesn't go down so the
paradoxical thing is that you have to be
okay with this whole thing not happening
in order for it to happen you know the
majority of the time and v is mirroring
the girls spot so if the girl is being
you know super implicit and laid-back
like most of the time the girl aren't
going to be like hey I'm really horny
and I want some dick tonight you know
they're gonna be a little bit more
low-key about it and you're also gonna
be more laid-back and low-key now if
she's being very direct and explicit
that you're also gonna be very direct
and explicit and by mirroring her vibe
you're gonna kind of put her at ease and
make the whole thing much more likely to
go down and make more comfortable the
idea of having sex with a stranger
alright so let's take a look at some
examples now this first one I used in
the video on picking up on cues I also
want to use it here because I think it
works really well just to the fact that
it's super straightforward and it's
gonna set down a nice baseline for us to
look at so this girl opens me and says
hey what are you up to
so when a girl opens you it definitely
you know is a point in the I want to
[ __ ] that night camp but doesn't always
mean that there's gonna be quite often
when a girl opens you and she's not even
free that night so it's a sign but it's
not you know it's not a key thing I say
finishing some work how about you so
here what I'm doing is I'm pinging and
I'm trying to gather more information
her response to this is gonna you know
direct me further to see if she's just
trying to hang out in general or she
wants to [ __ ] that night or she's
somewhere in the middle and I she says
work on a Sunday that sucks trying to
figure out how to make the weekend last
longer so that's a very clear sign that
she's interested in [ __ ] probably
tonight so I say perhaps you can be my
distraction then so here I'm picking up
on her sign and moving things forward
again you have to be the one that makes
it happen she gives you the sign that
she wants to happen but then you need to
be the one actually leads she says hmm
that sounds fun and here I said what are
you looking for on here and to be honest
this text was pretty much completely
unnecessary I already have enough buying
from her at this point I don't really
need to do this but anyway the goal was
just to gather more investment she says
meet new people and have fun how about
you so that's another sign that she's
DTF I say yeah same kinky sex and
cuddles she says kinky how I say
banking hair-pulling leaving marks
especially on your ass so I had a
feeling she was gonna be into that plus
it's a pretty general answer I think
most girls are gonna be more or less
down with something like that
she says sounds hot I've actually got
bruises down my legs from some activity
last week so again now I'm gonna you
know moving so we got you know several
texts of her buying into this whole idea
so I said cool why don't you come over
spell see you em she says okay about
what time so that's you know another
confirmation text you know she's asking
buying questions like what time what's
the address
I say say 7:30 and when it comes to
logistics you don't need to go like some
guys try to overdo it and they try to be
like - Don I'm gonna say get your ass
here to your o'clock basically the way I
treat logistics with girls is the same
way I was treated with just six with
friends I would be like you're broke get
your [ __ ] ass here at eight o'clock
I'll be like hey man how does 8 o'clock
sound like that so same exact kind of
principal says that works I'll run into
the shower real quick says five miles
away I hope you're not too long over
Drive I say perfect text me and I'll
shoot you over my address and then I
give her my address anyway for some
reason and then she gives me her number
so whatever I say hi cutie she says hey
Alex here I say shower pigs are
encouraged some referencing her earlier
text about her taking a shower and this
was honestly completely unnecessary this
was a few years ago so my text game
wasn't quite as crisp yet she says I'll
text pictures to strangers so here you
go okay that wasn't the best text I just
kind of let it drop
I said kay-kay and then you know my
confirmation text is what is the GPS say
so again assuming the clothes she says
leaving now should be in about 20
minutes she asked my address I confirm
is there Street parking so this is what
I was mentioning about making things as
simple as possible the right answer is
always yes I say she says just trying to
find parking I say there's none in my
street she's like I found now just
trying to figure it out where I'm going
walk up the hill making things very
straightforward yep walking out here
that was falling and she randomly tells
me that she got tested recently and
she's clean I don't know why but anyway
so the point is is that you know this
was extremely straightforward all I
really did was kind of mirror her vibe
and lead I gathered more information and
when there were signs that she was DTF
that night I set it up and made it
happen all right let's take a look at
another example where the girl
opens me but this one's gonna be a
little bit more complex so she opens me
with hay and one of these emojis I say
hey what's up so obviously if she opens
me it's a good sign but it doesn't
necessarily mean anything by itself she
says just showing how about you I say
just finished a hike and then I realized
that her city was far away so say are
you in LA she says oh fawn yeah I live
in her city but I am in LA for the
weekend so that right there is
definitely a bit of a sign because if
she's on tinder she's talking to guys
and she's only here for the weekend it
means either to one of two things she
wants to [ __ ] or she's just bored and
killing time so I say nice got that sexy
Midwestern twang I hope so here I'm just
qualifying her little [ __ ] that's ha ha
I mean for me it's just normal are you
from here I say well yeah 4 years from
now originally from the great state of
New Jersey so you were just like [ __ ]
shootin the [ __ ] a little bit she says
oh cool I want to move here once I
graduate next year I say nice what are
you looking for on tinder so we got some
back and forth but here I want to move
things forward
she says someone who will do all the
things you talked about in your bio it's
literally my dream so I actually had a
pretty sexual bio at the time I think it
was like very Fifty Shades of Grey style
she said I say perfect we should get
together sometime soon then she says
what are you doing tomorrow night so
that's a good text that's kind of a
buying text but she's like a very hot
lead especially because she's only here
for the weekend
I remember she was a cute sorority girl
so I want to kind of agree to tomorrow
but I also want to ping her and see how
down she is tonight and not on anyway so
say a few things it should work unless
you're feeling spontaneous tonight so
that's a really good way to go about it
she says I have to finish an assignment
for school tonight otherwise I would ha
ha I'll you know if I finish early do
you do say for it so here you know she's
kind of get it she wants more
information about the experience
I say yeah we can make one alright so
I'm not gonna [ __ ] you know disagree
with her just create unnecessary
complexity
I say text me and I'd like to move these
things over to text at some point
because I feel like it adds an extra
layer of investment from the girl and
just reduces the likelihood of the whole
thing you know fizzling yeah she says
hey it's her name i say hey how's that
assignment it's coming along ha ha what
are you up to I say at the gym you
should take a break and come watch me
lift heavy things so we have kind of
tentative
plans for tonight so here what I'm
trying to do is I'm trying to increase
her desire to get laid a little bit with
some you know fun flirty text
she says sends me one of these emojis
and then she says so what are you
looking for I say exactly what my bio
says she says so you're pretty
experienced so here she's trying to
gather more information she's trying to
decide you know whether you know it's
worth her time to actually you know come
over and hang out with me or you know
whether she should just do her Simon X
instead so she's interested but she
hasn't completely decided that she's
gonna meet me yet I said yeah my job
keeps me pretty busy though so I want to
show her that I am experienced I'm also
not a giant [ __ ] who has a bunch of STDs
so that's kind of the way you go bout
with an answer like this she says what's
your job
I say male stripping obviously I know I
said ugly I'm not really that big of a
fan of abbreviations but whatever so she
says for real I say only one way to find
out
what part of town are you in I don't
know what sent as a link so here again
we got the banter I'm bantering back
with her I'm not gonna totally ignore
her banter because now you know that
would be too different than her vibe but
I'm also gonna move things forward and
try to make this [ __ ] happen she says
well I'm by whatever Boulevard I say
perfect me too so it's like it was meant
to be lol I say yeah craving a
distraction yet so again pinging her a
little bit more you got to see how down
she is to actually meet up that night
now if she was to say no to this or like
oh I really can't then I would just let
it drop and meet up with her the
following night fortunately she says
really bad ahah I'm doing as fast as I
can
do you have a car so I think of this
point she was already committed to the
idea she's interested in the idea of
meeting up with me now she's trying to
see whether the you know the obstacles
are gonna be bigger than her desire you
should just have quite a few obstacles
she's staying with her mom so she
doesn't have logistics she's only in
town visiting she doesn't know the city
and she doesn't have transportation
so there's several obstacles I need to
help her overcome so I say low yep she
says do you have your own place yes if
you live with your roommates that's the
right answer just oh that's awesome
would you be able to pick me up and drop
me back and I think this was the final
you know final like come on make this
easy for me text I say yeah around what
time are you thinking she says wait so
like how do I know you're normal ll so
it's moving in a positive direction this
a little bit of a sideway text because
here she gives me a concern
whoa how do I know you're actually this
happening so fast how do I know you're
not serial killer and this is what I
mentioned earlier you don't want to get
needy here and start like you're overly
qualifying yourself and you're sending
her a bunch of [ __ ]
so the one way to handle this is the way
I do I say I'll call you in five we can
she on the phone for a second just okay
I call her she doesn't pick up although
you know in her defense I took way more
than five minutes I hear I use I think
this is an old
RHD table line too chicken to pick up
the phone lol she says oh [ __ ] sorry was
in the shower give me a sec I sent her
one of these and then she call me so we
talked with Tom on the phone for
literally two three minutes yeah she
she's like okay you sounds no I'm like
cool all right so when are you gonna be
ready I'll come pick you up
so they're just straight-up logistics oh
yeah we said it Tom I think it was like
20 minutes from now I pick her up she
hops on the car we go back to my place
we hooked up it was a lot of fun
actually she wound up coming over the
following night and we hooked up again
so I remember when we were laying in bed
we were talking she was telling me she's
like yeah I'll be honest I was like
surfing tinder a lot and you know
there's a lot of guys I was talking to
but you were the only one that actually
made this [ __ ] happen which is why I
hung out with you over all those other
guys you're the only guy that was able
to pick up you know on what I wanted and
helped me make it happen alright next
let's change gears a little bit and take
a look at interaction to belong to one
of my mastermind members where he was
the one that opened the girl so he
opened her with my new opener hey future
lover she says hey I like your look
thank you your eyes really got me so so
far we have no idea where this girl is
you know DCL that night or DTF a week
from now so we just need to gather more
information he says thanks what they
tell you and she says they say come over
here
so this she's giving a pretty clear sign
that she might be interested in having
sex right now so here you know what the
wrong decision would be to begin overly
eager like Oh baby like when and where
like he needs to ping her a little bit
more and gather more information
oh really she says mm-hmm then he says
after that he says come over then she
says I want you and when a girl says
that it means that she's interested in
the idea very much but there's maybe
like one little thing that's kind of
holding her back so he says steward and
she says can I trust you he says yes and
sometimes it's really as simple as I own
you
overcomplicate these things you know
concern handled
she says hmm you could come in me at my
place tonight or I could come there
tomorrow so I like this girl he says
more part of town are you in he she
gives her area he says I'm in whatever
by the you so she says so what do you
think I generally the right decision is
to get the girl to come to you I'm less
for example she's really you know not
comfortable leaving her house and she
really insists on you coming over there
but generally plan a should be getting
her to come to you he says unless you
don't like dogs come to me do you live
by yourself so here she's just trying to
figure out okay what kind of obstacles
are we looking at is my desire to get
laid you know more or less than the
obstacles that exist and of course you
want to make the obstacles as easy as
possible so the right answer is always
yes I live by myself well you meet me
outside your place if I come to you
since 1:30 the right answer here is
obviously yes so he says yes I'm meeting
in the lobby to make sure no 300-pound
black guy and for any superest eww
people who are watching this video we're
thinking of accusing me of being racist
it's actually a black guy doing this
texting obviously playing with fire you
know we respect all races and so she
says little perfect where should I meet
you
he gives her the address she says okay
you're like 15 minutes away from me I'm
gonna leave my house shortly I'm wearing
my glasses by swearing otherwise looked
the same so just keeping things super
straightforward mmm bring your sexy nerd
glasses he just misspell that
unfortunately says leaving now see you
soon I'm here perfect coming down that
was hot I'm all sore now all definitely
worth coming over to it yeah so super
straightforward you know started off
with just normal banter you know just
normal conversation she gave some signs
that she was DTF he picked up on those
signs he capitalized on them he made the
whole thing happen he overcame a little
bit of the concern she had made the
whole thing as easy as possible for her
and as a result sex happened and let's
take a look at one last example and I
really want to end it off with this one
because I think it drives the point home
of how simple and straightforward this
whole thing can be if you let it be
simple and straightforward so this is
when I was in Poland and I opened this
girl with Seymour we spunky ski which is
my standard opener in Poland it
basically means you know do you speak
English says yep I say good are you in
Warsaw
so I remember
like a lot of abundance going at this
point and I wasn't Acacia so I didn't
really give a [ __ ] and usually when you
don't give a [ __ ] you have a lot of
bundles that's how you're gonna meet the
most amount of girls and when you're in
scarcity and you care the most and so
you're gonna have the lowest results
kind of paradoxical so she says I'm for
killing there's away from you of course
I'm and Warsaw how was your weekend so
so far just you know logistical
screening and I say even better it's
good finish the killer workout looking
nice and fit for our date so that's my
pinging text and her response to this
it's gonna tell me whether she's you
know DTF that night or now I didn't sure
about the idea of meeting or she's
somewhere in between and so she says and
what is it so she's asking a buying
question which definitely puts her in
this category like these are the
questions you want to see like where do
you live
do you have roommates you know when are
we meeting like these are good questions
to be asked
I say depends do you like WOD and I
could have easily said you know are you
feeling spontaneous and I there's you
know kind of numerous directions I could
have gotten as long as I'm direct she
says I do like drinking it good come
join me for a glass so here it's my
attempt at making happen I'm inviting
her she says where are you that I give
her my address and that's good because
she's asking me another buying question
she says I can get there in half an hour
will you be there then if you notice I'm
always saying like when they were
getting into these kinds of questions
I'm always giving yes yes yes like I'm
trying to make it happen you don't want
to you don't wanna be the guy so I said
no I don't know so I say yeah that works
messaged me on whatsapp she says I only
have message apparently I say you can
text me I have the International plant
la-dee-da and then she says okay I'm
right next to the building you're here
by Bank millennium so she was outside my
building I come out we go inside you
know she's a cute Polish nerd we drink
some wine and we wind up hooking up and
so I remember that you know afterwards
were laying in bed and yeah same pattern
she's like hey yeah she's like I like
how you were super direct by kind of
like that because I was bored I was
looking to do something and you're the
only guy that I was talking to that made
it happen and made it very very easy for
me to come over and have sex with you
all right so let's sum everything up now
you might be thinking holy [ __ ] man like
some of these examples are almost too
easy
and yes this can be super
straightforward unfortunately for them
fortunately for me you the majority of
guys will [ __ ] this up they will either
add unnecessary complexity they won't
pick up on the science of girl
giving them they'll chat and banter to
no end they won't pull the trigger or
you know they'll become needy and
they'll [ __ ] it up in any number of ways
so as long as you follow the best
practices I mentioned earlier you know
again accurately picking up on the signs
that she gives you pinging her when you
need more information you know leading
and making this thing happen not being
needy
you know mirroring her energy and just
keeping this as simple as possible
lowering the obstacles in her way it'll
be part of the maybe 5% of guys who can
actually make a save nightlight happen
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